Privacy

Your data, explained simply

We believe in transparency. Here's exactly what we collect, why we collect it, and how we keep it safe.

Last updated: September 22, 2026

What we collect

When you use Togethera, we collect only what's necessary to make the app work for you and your partner.

Account info

Your name, email, and profile picture. If you sign in with Google, we receive your basic profile information (name, email address, and profile photo) from your Google account.

Partner data

Mood updates, game activity, and shared plans — the heart of what makes Togethera work.

Device info

Device type, OS, and push tokens — so we can send you notifications when it's your turn.

Usage & advertising data

Anonymous app-activity events (such as installs, sign-ups, pairing, and subscriptions) and, only if you allow it, your device's advertising identifier. We use these to understand how the app is used and to measure whether our ads reach people who'd love Togethera. We never use the content of your moods, messages, photos, memories, or stories for advertising.

How we use it

Your data powers the features you love:

  • ●Real-time mood sharing between you and your partner
  • ●Game turns and notifications so you never miss a play
  • ●Widget sync to your home screen and lock screen
  • ●Improving the app based on how people actually use it

We don't sell your data

Let's be clear: we do not sell your personal information. Ever. Your partner data is shared only with your connected partner.

We work with a few trusted services:

Firebase (Google)—Authentication & database
OpenAI—AI stories and quiz questions
RevenueCat—Subscription management
Meta (Facebook)—Ad measurement & attribution
Google Analytics for Firebase—Anonymous product analytics

Advertising & tracking

To help more couples discover Togethera (and keep it free to try), we run ads on platforms like Meta. To see whether those ads actually work, the app uses Meta's software kit to report a few anonymous events, such as when someone installs the app, creates an account, pairs with a partner, or subscribes. This tells us which ads genuinely helped couples find us. We do not send the content of your moods, messages, photos, memories, or stories.

On iPhone and iPad, we ask your permission before using your device's advertising identifier, through Apple's App Tracking Transparency prompt. If you decline, the app works exactly the same, and measurement happens in a privacy-safe, aggregated way through Apple's SKAdNetwork instead.

You can change your choice anytime in your device Settings under Privacy & Security, and you can opt out of interest-based ads in your Meta account settings.

Security

Your data is stored on Google Cloud with encryption at rest and in transit. We use Firebase Authentication, Firestore security rules, and HTTPS everywhere. The boring stuff that matters.

Your rights

You're in control. You can:

  • ●Access and export your data anytime
  • ●Request corrections to inaccurate information
  • ●Delete your account and all associated data
  • ●Opt out of push notifications in your device settings
  • ●Opt out of ad tracking anytime via your device's App Tracking Transparency settings

Children's privacy

Togethera is for adults and teens 13+. We don't knowingly collect information from children under 13.

Changes to this policy

If we update this policy, we'll post the changes here and update the date at the top. No surprises.

Google API Services

Togethera's use and transfer to any other app of information received from Google APIs will adhere to the Google API Services User Data Policy, including the Limited Use requirements.

Questions?

We're happy to explain anything in more detail.

support@togethera.app